Empathy in Email Marketing: The Key Ingredient for Success
Boost email open rates and customer loyalty with empathetic, personalized email marketing that speaks to subscriber pain points, emotions, and real needs.
I run an opt-in newsletter as a solo creator and recently upgraded to an annual email marketing plan mainly to use built-in monetization features (such as an ad network or referral/boost marketplace). Shortly after upgrading, the platform disabled my monetization access and withheld earnings, citing “irregularities” and a direct terms-of-service violation, but they won’t share the specific reason.
From an email operations and compliance perspective, what are the most common issues that lead an ESP to flag an account like this (for example: list acquisition problems, low-quality traffic sources, abnormal subscribe or click patterns, bot activity, spam complaints, high bounces, or sudden spikes)? Which key metrics should I review first to identify the likely trigger, and what’s the most practical way to request a review or escalate if the provider won’t provide details?
Hi! When an ESP disables newsletter monetization for “irregularities,” it’s usually because their risk/fraud systems think either (a) your audience wasn’t acquired with clean consent, or (b) the monetization clicks/signups look incentivized, automated, or otherwise “not genuine” to advertisers—even if your sending itself looks mostly fine. Because ad networks and referral/boost marketplaces put the ESP on the hook financially, they tend to act fast and share very little detail.
Here are the most common triggers I see in email ops/compliance that lead to monetization being shut off (often without a precise explanation):
Even if you believe it’s opt-in, monetization programs often require high-confidence consent.
This is a huge one for monetization. ESPs and advertisers get burned by traffic that “converts” but isn’t real engagement.
Fraud tooling looks for patterns that humans don’t produce.
You can have a healthy newsletter and still get monetization disabled if the ad/referral interactions look manipulated.
Even without fraud, “risk to sender reputation” can get features restricted.
Sometimes “irregularities” is a bucket used for policy issues too.
If you only look at a few things, I’d start here:
If you find a single growth channel where subscribers have higher bounces/complaints and disproportionately high monetization clicks, that combination very often triggers “irregularities.”
You’re right that many providers won’t disclose the exact rule or signal (it helps them prevent adversarial behavior). What does work is giving them a clean, structured “risk packet” that makes it easy to reinstate you.
Here’s what to send support/trust & safety (short, factual, and organized):
Your acquisition methods (by channel)
Proof of consent & disclosure
What changed right before the enforcement
Your self-audit findings
A concrete remediation plan
Escalation tactic that helps: ask them to route the case to their compliance/monetization risk team and ask which category it falls into (list acquisition, click fraud, advertiser quality, deliverability risk, restricted content). They may not share the exact metric, but they sometimes will confirm the category.
If they still won’t engage, your best leverage is demonstrating you’ve removed the likely risky source/cohort and tightened controls—because the decision is often “reinstate once the risk is demonstrably reduced,” not “argue about the signal.”
If you want, paste (no personal data) a high-level breakdown like: how many subscribers you added in the last 60 days, top 3 acquisition sources, whether you imported any list, and whether growth involved giveaways/lead forms/referral marketplaces. I can tell you which two or three areas are most likely to have triggered the enforcement and what to change first.
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